Wednesday, October 31, 2012

12 Weeks

I received the twelve week (11 week and 6 day) scan this past Friday.  The ultrasound is remarkably clear, and I could be wrong but I believe that the dot in front of the baby's face is part of a tiny arm and a hand.  You can see the baby waving and smiling in the image to the right. ;)  Dr. Jolly's report says that his or her heart is beating at 152Bpm. 
  
The scan to the left and Dr. Jolly's report also indicate that the baby's fetal growth is at ten weeks and one day.  I know that is twelve days behind the actual gestational age of the baby.  The report before this one also put the baby close to two weeks behind his or her gestational age, so at that time I e-mailed Dr. Shivani and asked if everything was okay.  Dr. Shivani told me a scan can be plus or minus two weeks and not to worry.  She said that she checked with Dr. Jolly too and he said everything was fine. 

At this point I'm staying focused on the positive words and communications from Dr. Shivani and others at the clinic:)  I know that I have said this before, but it is something that comes to mind more and more frequently with each passing day - so of course I need to write about it.  I knew that trust was an important part of this process when I signed on, but as the process has moved forward I have come to realize that trust and faith in my doctor and clinic is everything in a process that takes place so far from home. 

And when I look at the images below I can't help but have faith in my decisions and the path that I have taken this far.  I believe that the least that a person can do is to figure out what they hope for.  And the most that a person can do is to live right inside of that hope and do something about it.

Finally, I'm a person who likes to live and enjoy each day to it's fullest, but come on time - hurry up a little! ;)


One final note - It would be wrong to end this page of my blog without thanking all of the people who supported me through my loss.  I haven't had a chance to thank everyone but the kind comments, e-mails and calls are appreciated.  Facing this journey as a single man can be tough at times, so support from those who understand or try to understand is genuinely appreciated.

So watch this space because I'm looking very forward to receiving my next update from the clinic.  That should happen in about nine more days, but who's counting:)!!  
 
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  1. AnonymousNovember 1, 2012 at 12:11 AM

    Yay for 12 weeks ! Scans bring good, bad and weird feelings.
    I am currently waiting for the birth of our 2 singletons who are now both at 39wks - both are measuring at 34.5 weeks and have been measuring small since week 32. Their estimated weight is TINY.

    We are still told "not to worry, babies are growing well and surrogates are doing fine".

    I experience the full spectrum of feelings, always trying to come back to the state of acceptance that things are the way they are and the best care is occurring. It does not stop the occasional melt down but since those too area a natural part of the process I embrace them, I just try not to live there - lol.

    Best wishes for your next updates.

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    1. CraigNovember 5, 2012 at 9:15 PM

      Were the babies measuring on track up until week 32?

      It won't be long now and you'll be a dad:)!! Keep me posted. Drop me a line:)

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  2. I&DNovember 1, 2012 at 3:24 AM

    How amazing are those scans and the baby does look like it is waving, congratulation on making the 12 week mile stone, we hope the rest of your journey goes fast and smoothly.
    I&D

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    1. CraigNovember 5, 2012 at 9:26 PM

      Thank you - Best wishes and thoughts to you guys as well:) Here's to three new dads in 2013:)!!

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  3. Michael's surrogacy JourneyNovember 1, 2012 at 11:07 AM

    Criag, I am in your same boat buddy, just breath, Dr Shivani is the best hands you can have. I was in your boat in the begining,a nd scared and just the feeling of helplessness. But she knows what she is doing and will work her magick. I am now in my weeek 28 and January is fast approching. I have fear, excitment, love and so much joy. This is the greatest gift that can be given to us. Good luck buddy.

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    1. CraigNovember 5, 2012 at 9:55 PM

      Thanks Michael:-) This is the greatest gift of all!

      I am very excited for you! Looking forward to future updates about your little one.

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  4. GeeNovember 1, 2012 at 4:28 PM

    12 weeks! :) beautiful scans x

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    1. CraigNovember 5, 2012 at 9:52 PM

      Thank you Gee! You will be there shortly. I can't wait to meet you in India next year:)

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  5. FGNovember 1, 2012 at 8:22 PM

    12 week scans are very reassuring. Baby looks like it is saying high to Daddy

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    1. CraigNovember 5, 2012 at 10:11 PM

      Thank you. I can't wait to say hi in person:)

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  6. Chindian DreamsNovember 1, 2012 at 11:41 PM

    Great scans - thanks for sharing them! No worries about baby's measurement as per everyone's comments. Baby can measure behind, on target, and ahead at different times of the pregnancy and varies from one pregnancy to another. Congrats on reaching 12 weeks!

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    1. CraigNovember 6, 2012 at 9:58 PM

      Thanks and congratulations on beginning the third trimester!! Your daughter will be in your arms in no time at all:)

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  7. greatdanaNovember 4, 2012 at 6:57 PM

    Beautiful pictures! I agree that looks like a hand next to baby's head. We are a week behind you. I'm 12w1d as the surrogate. I'm sorry to hear about the loss of your other baby. I look forward to watching this one grow and develop fully!

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  8. CraigNovember 6, 2012 at 10:35 PM

    Very cool about the close proximity of the pregnancies.

    Thanks Dana. I am looking forward to following your pregnancy as well:-)

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